Self -help books are

some of the hardest books to read, they usually rank with text books. Don’t take it personal that people haven’t read or applied the book to their lives. I just think that is part of our human nature.

For instance, I’m dealing right now with a 73 year old woman who is a caregiver for her 98 year old mother. She has yet to see that services are available to her, based on her age alone. She uses her mom’s wheelchair as her walker for instance. Even when her mom isn’t with her at the grocery store, she has her mom’s wheel chair but flat out denies she needs a walking aid. In her eyes she’s the child and she’s not an elder – her mom is.